Create the kind of relationships you long for.
Become the kind of couple who can navigate anything that comes their way.
Connect on a level that you didn’t know was possible.
I work with couples of all sexual orientations, gender expressions and relationship models.
Couples Coaching
Strengthen communication and connection.
Understand and honor each other’s desires and boundaries.
Navigate differences in desire and challenges with intimacy.
Build healthy habits around life, work, sexuality, and finances.
Expand the emotional, physical, and spiritual possibilities in your relationship.
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Pre Wedding Coaching
I meet with couples before their nuptials to discuss any hopes, dreams and anxieties about taking the next step in their commitment to each other. Our sessions can lead to the creation of beautiful vows, a non denominational spiritual contract to one and other, and create a private space for the couple to check in before making a public display of their commitment. For more information click here.
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Testimonials
“My wife and I were facing one particular issue that kept resurfacing and we never really saw eye to eye on. Every conversation we had about it would spiral into a fight and we would continually butt heads and couldn't quite hear each other.
Our communication has improved drastically. The initial challenge we sought couples coaching for is completely resolved, and we are now diving into new territory that neither of us have ever excavated in ourselves or in previous relationships. I feel that we can face any challenge that comes our way and there is so much less fear and shame around bringing up hard things.
I think just being seen so clearly has been so rewarding. Shula approaches this work with so much empathy but she's also a straight shooter. I really appreciate the straightforwardness that is also rooted in compassion and love. There are so many times where she has reflected back what I said in a way that makes more sense to me than when I said it.
Any couple can benefit from this work. Even if you aren't facing any immediate challenges, you will be surprised how much there is to unearth about your own patterns, generational patterns, and ways you can help each other grow. Shula can help you see things you had no idea were there, and for me personally it's been mind blowing.”
- Nina, Brooklyn, NY
"My partner and I finally reached out to Shula after a few years of not quite connecting in the bedroom. Although we felt very confident in our relationship in every other facet our struggles were real when it came to sexual intimacy.
We both felt so comfortable talking with her. She assigned us an array of tools/worksheets that were incredibly helpful and opened our mind to alternative ways of looking at ourselves and dealing with our issues.
Shula was also very accommodating with our schedule. It was convenient to use video calls as getting to someone in person is impossible. We will continue to reach out to Shula to continue growing together as a couple.
I’m very grateful we were referred to her and attribute the growth of our relationship to her helping us."
-BB