RELATIONSHIP COACH · MA · MPH
Better relationships start with understanding yourself.
I work with individuals and couples ready to break old patterns, deepen intimacy, and build connections that actually last.
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ABOUT SHULA
Most of us were never taught how to love.
We inherit patterns, internalize beliefs, and repeat dynamics we don't fully understand. My work is about changing that — through awareness, curiosity, and honest conversation.
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MA + MPH
Psychology & Public Health
15 +
Years working with Individuals & Couples
Global Practice Based in NYC
Work virtually with clients locally and internationally
WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER
You don't need all the answers.
You just need the right questions.
Let's explore them together.
1:1 Coaching
Personalized work on patterns, communication, and self-understanding. For individuals at any stage.
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Couples Coaching
Navigate conflict, rebuild trust, and create a dynamic you both feel good about.
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Groups & Programs
The Foundation and other group formats for learning, connection, and community.
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"Curiosity creates connection; assumptions create distance."
- Shula
“Her coaching was professional and encouraging. I gained clarity on patterns I had been overlooking for years.”
— MR
1:1 Coaching Client
“Any couple can benefit from this work. Even if you aren't facing any immediate challenges, you will be surprised how much there is to unearth about your own patterns, generational patterns, and ways you can help each other grow. Shula can help you see things you had no idea were there, and for me personally it's been mind blowing.”
- Nina, Brooklyn, NY
Couples Coaching Client
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